Why these 2 mothers are on opposite sides of the Temecula school board recall (2024)

What unites Melanie Molina and Sally Price is also what divides them.

Both their families moved to Temecula — Molina from Fallbrook, Price from North Dakota — so their children could take advantage of the city’s highly regarded public school district.

But Molina, 32, and Price, 41, find themselves on opposite sides in the fight to remove Temecula school board President Joseph Komrosky, who faces a June 4 recall election.

“Out of all of us parents, he was the one that stood up and decided ‘I’m going to take a stand,’” said Molina, who has three school-age children and a 7-month-old.

Price, whose 13- and 15-year-olds attend Temecula schools, said Komrosky has done “nothing for our community, nothing of value.”

“Komrosky is a dictator, not a leader,” she said. “He always causes division and chaos.”

Price said Komrosky, along with two other conservative board members elected in 2022 — one, Danny Gonzalez, has since resigned — has tried to impose a political agenda at the expense of children’s education.

“All children deserve an education, a quality education with the separation of church and state without religion,” Price said.

“And they are trying to push their beliefs on others. Banning books is not OK. That’s what the Nazis did … We need to learn history and not go there”

“The (Temecula) school district is superior compared to Fallbrook Unified,” Molina said. “We (were) also looking for more of that community feel — the tract home feel where we’d be closer to everyone.”

Price said she and her husband are amazed at what Temecula high schools offer, especially compared to the small Washington state town in which they grew up.

“Going through the freshman orientation a month ago, we were just in awe of the opportunities these children have with the hundreds of clubs,” Price said. “We maybe had five clubs at our school.”

For the most part, Temecula school board meetings used to be tranquil affairs.

After Komrosky, Gonzalez and fellow conservative Jen Wiersma won a majority of board seats two years ago, those meetings have become culture war battlegrounds featuring fiery public comments, public acrimony between board members, shouting and clapping from conservatives’ friends and foes and sheriff’s deputies keeping the peace.

That division has carried over to the recall, with both sides attacking each other on social media, holding sign-waving rallies at busy intersections and competing to see who can put up the most campaign signs around town.

Both sides accuse the other of stalking and menacing behavior in-person and online.

“You go to these (school board) meetings and you realize some of these individuals are not even civil. They’re not even following the rules themselves,” Molina said.

“Some of them are employees, some of them are educators from other places. So it’s just kind of really inspired me as a mom to speak up and support Dr. Komrosky because it’s very rare you elect someone and they go in and they do what they say they’re going to do.”

Molina, a registered Libertarian who lives in Komrosky’s district, has an anti-recall lawn sign and sticker on her vehicle. She said she has neighbors who support the recall and gets along with them, but she’s also been flipped off by other drivers “and I’ve had people try to run me off the road.”

Price, who doesn’t live in Komrosky’s district, said the anti-recall side is “nasty and aggressive” at board meetings.

“I know there’s been talk about me,” Price said, who described herself as a moderate and declined to share her political party affiliation.

“We meet sometimes at the park and certain individuals from the park told one of my other neighbors how she doesn’t like my (pro-recall lawn) sign … There is one individual who I’m Facebook friends with who’s spewed all kinds of misinformation on my Facebook page and I have the right to delete that.”

Neither Molina nor Price considers themselves to be die-hard activists.

Molina, whose husband, Danny, hosts an anti-recall podcast — Komrosky has been a guest — said she’s never been heavily involved in politics. Price said she volunteered for a few political campaigns and talked politics with family before joining the pro-recall effort.

Molina said she and her husband, a Marine Corps veteran, voted for Komrosky after reading his biography in a voter information guide.

“Any time we see someone who is a veteran running, that’s very important to us for our family,” Molina said, adding she was impressed by Komrosky’s academic background — he holds a Ph.D. in philosophy and teaches at Mt. San Antonio College in Walnut — “and he’s for the parents. He’s for parental rights.”

Watching the conservatives run for school board in 2022, “(I thought) ‘Oh boy, these people, I think they might get elected,’” Price said.

After school closures during the pandemic and remote learning, she said, “people were riled up so I could just kind of see the writing on the wall.”

The night they took office, Komrosky and his fellow conservatives banned the teaching of critical race theory, a term used by conservatives to attack lessons they believe to be racially divisive and borne of a victim mentality.

“We have a blended family,” Molina said. “My oldest daughter is from my first marriage and she’s biracial.”

“Teaching CRT to my children would break our family apart essentially because you’re going to be teaching my daughter, who is half Black, that I’m her oppressor and her siblings are her oppressor.”

Price is especially troubled by board efforts to restrict books deemed to be p*rnographic and a policy, passed by the then-conservative majority, to notify parents if their child is transgender.

While neither of her children identify as transgender, “we’ve built a safe environment,” Price said.

“However, not all children have that option … I want parents to be involved in their children’s life. But children need to be able to come out when they feel comfortable and safe on their own time.”

Price is working with One Temecula Valley PAC, which spearheaded the drive to put the recall on the ballot. She signed the petition to recall Komrosky and now knocks on voters’ doors to promote the recall.

“The people of Temecula have awakened and they’re unhappy,” Price said.

Before signing the recall petition, Price said her family discussed moving “if we didn’t get normalcy back.”

“We’re not looking for left or right,” she said. “We just want a quality education for our children with fighting different battles that are not meant for a school board.”